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 No.18

I have a bad habit of thinking Gumpai hates me sometimes. Usually when she’s busy or at work I’ll overthink about my interactions with her and start to worry that she hates me. However, when she is around and we are hanging out, I have a very good time with her and don’t really think about this stuff. I noticed that this was a cycle and can’t stop feeling depressed every morning because I feel like I fucked up by being stupid or annoying or too boring. I really wish I didn’t have this mindset but I would like to stand out a bit to her in a good way. I usually stop feeling this way whenever she gets home and hangs out but the highs are really high and the lows are very low when it comes to these emotions.

 No.19

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>Gumpai hates me sometimes.
I don’t! I love you my gumperoni!
>the highs are really high and the lows are very low when it comes to these emotions.
I don’t really have any advice because i take anti psychotics for this problem but I hope your emotions stabilize soon… try to do something in your spare time that invests in you so you have more confidence in yourself! do things that you think cool people do so you can trick yourself that you are (you actually are cool anon trust me)

 No.20

I feel you. I get like that with most people I interact with. In a perfect world, I'd say: it's not your job to guess, it's their responsibility to let you know.
Does it hold true in modern society? Maybe not. But it's a mindset worth striving towards regardless. If not for others then for yourself. Set the example, and maybe others will follow.

And I'm not saying this to scare you, but if you actually, genuinely, really did piss Gump off in a meaningful way, you'd know by having been banned. Helps me a little with these feelings, at least.

 No.21

your mind is your number one opp man. nobody knows how to effectively tear down your confidence better than yourself. if you really pissed gumpai off, you'd be banned like the other anon said, but you're not.

have some faith in yourself, and try not to overthink as much

 No.22

>>18
I know the feeling, it's a feeling I get with most everybody though - is this a feeling or train of thought you experience with people often? Do you have negative experiences with people treating you one way while feeling another entirely?
Gump at least is straightforward and blunt enough that I know if she did dislike me she'd probably have gotten rid of me by now or at least confronted me about what I've done that bothers her and I know the same probably stands for everyone.

To be honest I did get kind of overwhelmed with the feeling when she demodded me but yknow, I think I get her reasons.

 No.115

>>22
in the business we call this foreshadowing


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